Marital Counselling

A husband and wife went for counseling after 20 years of marriage. When asked what the problem was, the wife went into a passionate, painful tirade, listing every problem they had ever had in the 20 years they had been married.

She went on and on and on: neglect, lack of intimacy, emptiness, loneliness, feeling unloved and unlovable; an entire laundry list of unmet needs she had endured over the course of their marriage.

Finally, after allowing this to go on for a sufficient length of time, the therapist got up, walked around the desk and, after asking the wife to stand, embraced and kissed her passionately as her husband watched with a raised eyebrow. The woman shut up and quietly sat down as though in a daze.

The therapist turned to the husband and said, "This is what your wife needs at least three times a week. Can you do this?"

The husband thought for a moment and replied, "Well, I can drop her off here on Mondays and Wednesdays, but on Fridays, I fish."

feel not so good

i'm on my medical leave for 2 days..having a cough, flu and asthmatic at the same time...couldnt feel any worse than this...

had received my examination result few days ago...i should celebrate it but instead i felt totally disappointed...manage to get 3A's and 1A-...another dean's list in my folder...thats a good result but my gpa stated there 3.746..i missed 0.004 points to make me the recipient of the first class honour student...the point is...i didnt make it...! it was so frustrating..i dont mind if i missed few points but another 0.004?

ooooohhhhhh man....!!!

not in the mood to do anything right now...

pssst...coz i didnt get...nobody also get...

New School New Stories

Today i'm going to tell u about my new school...its a big school..about 1700 students and about 105 teachers..has 2 sessions..and as u know i'm in the morning session. when u are new there.. you'll encounter new people, new school subjects, new activities, and many more colleagues than you're used to...but i'm not complain..going to learn everything fast!


with my sis at KLIA-waiting for mom back from umrah-always bz wth her pda

this school of mine (and proud of it eventhough i'm still new...hey u suppose to love your working place right?)has a nice environment...the students are well behaved eventhough some of them quite mischievous (but they are still under control) not like my former school...the principle is a very nice lady..very simple and has good PR wth her staffs, the senior assistants all three of them also ladies (what happen to other species huh?)also very nice to me...quite helpful and hopefully it will last because the last thing i want to do is fight and have a bad relationship with all of them..( just dont provoke me..sigh)..the other 2 lady counsellors(yes another lady) also very nice and i think i can get along very well wth them...

but one funny incident (or pathetic?) has happened on my first day in school...one lady teacher from other races ( i think she was shocked to see me ) had asked me whether i'm a malay..then i told her that i was a pure breed of malay descendants... she asked me why i didnt wear a scarf..well i said i always without one so why bother to wear it now...she then politely tell me to be prepared if the principle asked me to wear it one day because she already asked all the female students to cover up... well..thanks for the advice but i told her let them ask me first...

( i think she just want to warn me, nothing else) but to tell u the truth that incident wont affect me at all because it has happened to me so many times and now i'm immune to it already...hehehe... and u know what... i think i'm going to LOVE this school...thats the most important thing...love this school..yeah especially when u can go back 1 hour early compared to a single session schools...that means i have time ample time to go for my masters classes...great!

Top 5 Best Diary Blog

i've been disappearing again..no...i did not going anywhere...just relaxing at home doing things i love like reading my friend's blogs, reading political blogs ( lots of things happening lately in my beloved country so i dont want to be left out) do little bit of decorating and gardening...i must do this before 9th June...why u may ask? because i will be a full time counsellor in school and i pretty damn sure it will take a hell lot of my time...!

then during my visits i found out in Bluedreamer's site that i have won this award...TOP 1 Best Diary Blog! i must say i was quite speechless and surprised! i dont know how he evaluates or how he chose the 5 blogs but i definitely feel flattered...thank you blue...! i owe u one...hehehe!

and oh ya...before i forget..i want to tell u that i heard from my colleague (new friend of mine..buddy counselor too)that the school has posted me in the morning session...oh my...i feel really blessed...wish me luck ( i know u would) because i will report for duty this monday...will tell u more about this new school soon...why am i sweating now? erkkkkk....

Good News!

i have few good news to share with you today....
first of all...i have finished doing my practical thingy in school! wow..time flies very fast i couldnt believe it's already 3 months!
i have done my final reports (thats why i couldnt write new post for my blog, azazura)and will submit to my lecturer this week...

secondly.... i got an offer letter to continue my study in my present university...i will be doing a master of science in Sociology...the class will be started in july...i'm so scared because this time i will be doing it all alone without my friends...but i am sure i can do it just fine...it will be tough to study and work at the same time...but with my family support and encouragement things will get easier...hopefully..

Thirdly...jeng!jeng!jeng! i received my posting letter on Teacher's Day...the school will be in Senawang.. its about 20 kilometres from my home! oh my...this is the best present i ever received on Teachers Day and i bet it was better than all the incentives the government going to give to all teachers this year...now i can sleep peacefully and enjoy my 3 weeks holidays...!the only worries i had is..(kalau takde tak sah kan?) this school has 2 sessions...and i dont know where the admin will put me yet..there are pros and cons...but i do hope they will put me in the morning session...now i'm crossing my finger!


with my former students...they are cute and cheerful.

finally i am really glad that everything turns out well for me...thank god...! and firends...thank you for your prayer and i do believe it worked!