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Sunday, February 10, 2008

What Women Want...


Picture from Billy...beautiful..isnt it?

Men are alwyas complaining that women are very difficult to read...actually we are not..really! although some of u disagree with my view there are of course situations where guys just get things wrong and at the end women become unhappy..if we are happy then u also be happy..yes? no..?

i tell u what..there are little things that can make women happy..its very very simple..atleast it works for me...!

1. Call her
if u said u would call..please...just give her a call or if u r stingy (???)..just text her..and if she calls or text u..please return it ASAP...women are born with this agonising feelings over small things...thinking maybe something has happened to u or maybe u dont care etc...i dont expect immediate call but atleast tell me that u are ok and u will talk to me later...easy!

2. dress smartly
please make an effort everytime u go and see her..u dont have to look like a brad pitt in tuxedo but atleast try your best...try to find out what she likes and try to accommodate that...if she likes u to wear faded-torn jeans (for example)she will compliment u and if she doesnt like it..she will give u a hint..please take a note in your head..

3. remember some significant dates
especially her birthday, anniversaries or all the first- time...example :first time when u date her alone (usually with bunch of friends) because she will remember that also! if u do remember u'd be well rewarded...believe me!

4. show love and affection
u may not be ready to profess your undying love but u can do other things to make her happy. women love to being showered with lots of affection. like hand-holding, arm around the shoulder, and stolen kiss..they are unexpected and this will make her feel cherished..! and please leave all the mauling and groping behind..! u cannot call that equal affection! dont misunderstanding her if she wont respond favourably if u insist on grabbing her inappropriate places..u might get a tight slap on the face...hehehe..

so simple isnt it? women are simple creatures with simple needs...some of the women are quite bold in saying that they do not need men..but for me life will be boring without them! they are weird but at the same time they are unique...!hmmmmm....CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM...!!!

81 comments:

Azhas said...

good tip

Akmal said...

Kak Waliz,
Hehehe, handy! No kidding.

Akmal said...
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A Z R A said...

hehehehe....i need men, definitely! to make my life more colourful!

waliz said...

hi azhas..yes..good tips..:D

waliz said...

akmal...very very handy..especially for u..*wink*

waliz said...

azraaaaa....the more the merrier huh?

Speedcat Hollydale said...

Thanks for the tips!! I guess that I should get a new shirt or two :) The key for me has been being understanding and a good listener. and a laugh or two does not hurt

A Z R A said...

yeah girl, the more the merrier...and colourful...i mean - literally colourful...hehehehehhe ;)

BillyWarhol said...

wow*

I am truly Honoured that U would include that Photo i took of a lovely Art Piece in yer Post!

It looks great too on the Black Background - really sets the light tones + colourz off Beautifully*

I Promise to Keep Loving U + Cherishing U every second for the Rest of my Life Waliz!!

;)) xoxo

Peace*

waliz said...

Go get it speedcat..yeah i think i should include that too..being understanding, have sense of humour and be a good listener...what else women could ask for..:D

waliz said...

agree azra....hehehhe! girl power!

waliz said...

Billy...i couldnt resist to put that photo..maybe in the future i will put another one u gave me...lovely huh?

i cant stop loving u too....:D
*peace*

BillyWarhol said...

Please Waliz!

Those Tasteful Nudies of Meself are FOR YOUR EYES ONLY!!

;PPP xoxoooooooooooooo

waliz said...

U r damn right..! what a waste i cant share it wth others...i already hung it up on my bedroom wall...lol!

BillyWarhol said...

U got the same Spunk as Amy Winehouse who just Won the Grammy Record of the Year for REHAB!!

I love that Song!!

;))

waliz said...

i love this song too...!la la la....

They tried to make me go to rehab but i said 'no, no, no'
Yes I've been black but when i come back you'll know know know
I ain't got the time and if my daddy thinks I'm fine
He's tried to make me go to rehab but i won't go go go

I'd rather be at home with ray
I aint got seventeen days
Coz there's nothing
There's nothing you can teach me
That i can't learn from mr hathaway

Didn't get al lucky at class
But i know it don't come in a shot glass

They tried to make me go to rehab but i said 'no, no, no'
Yes I've been black but when i com e back you'll know know know
I ain't got the time and if my daddy thinks I'm fine
He's tried to make me go to rehab but i won't go go go

The man said 'why do you think you here'
I said 'I got no idea
I'm gonna, I'm gonna lose my baby
so I always keep a bottle near'
He said 'I just think your depressed,
kiss me here baby and go rest'

They tried to make me go to rehab but i said 'no, no, no'
Yes I've been black but when i com e back you'll know know know
I ain't got the time and if my daddy thinks I'm fine
He's tried to make me go to rehab but i won't go go go

I don't ever wanna drink again
I just ooh i just need a friend
I'm not gonna spend ten weeks
have everyone think I'm on the mend

It's not just my pride
It's just til these tears have dried

They tried to make me go to rehab but i said 'no, no, no'
Yes I've been black but when i com e back you'll know know know
I ain't got the time and if my daddy thinks I'm fine
He's tried to make me go to rehab but i won't go go go

long live AMY + BILLY...!

BillyWarhol said...

U got it Baby!

It was Funny cuz I read about her in the paper all the Time but I had never heard her on the Radio or anything but when I finally heard that Song a coupla weeks ago I went this Chick is the Real Deal!! She's Great + I'm Happy she Won!

In Fact tonight watching the Whole Show - were great performances + even the end with Herbie Hancock winning for his Joni Mitchell Letters was Fantastic + his words YES WE CAN! YES WE CAN

Which to me is signalling the Change Barack Obama is thankfully gonna bring about not just for America but the whold World!

;))

BillyWarhol said...

The Yes We Can Song
by will.i.am

I was sitting in my recording studio watching the debates...
Torn between the candidates

I was never really big on politics...
and actually I’m still not big on politics...
but 4 years ago, me and the black eyed peas supported Kerry...
And we supported Kerry with all our might...
We performed and performed and performed for the DNC...
doing all we could do to get the youth involved...

The outcome of the last 2 elections has saddened me...
on how unfair, backwards, upside down, unbalanced, untruthful,
corrupt, and just simply, how wrong the world and "politics" are...

So this year i wanted to get involved and do all i could early...

And i found myself torn...
because this time it’s not that simple...
our choices aren’t as clear as the last elections ...
last time it was so obvious...
Bush and war
vs
no Bush and no war...

But this time it’s not that simple...
and there are a lot of people that are torn just like i am...

So for awhile I put it off and i was going to wait until it was decided for me...

And then came New Hampshire...

And i was captivated...

Inspired...

I reflected on my life...
and the blessings I have...
and the people who fought for me to have these rights and blessings...

and I’m not talking about a "black thing"
I’m talking about a "human thing" me as a "person"
an American...

That speech made me think of Martin Luther King...
Kennedy...
and Lincoln...
and all the others that have fought for what we have today...

what America is "supposed" to be...

freedom...
equality...
and truth...

and thats not what we have today...
we think we are free...
but in reality terror and fear controls our decisions...

this is not the America that our pioneers and leaders fought and
died for...

and then there was New Hampshire

it was that speech...
like many great speeches...
that one moved me...
because words and ideas are powerful...

It made me think...
and realize that today we have "very few" leaders...
maybe none...

but that speech...

it inspired me...
it inspired me to look inside myself and outwards towards the world...
it inspired me to want to change myself to better the world...
and take a "leap" towards change...
and hope that others become inspired to do the same...
change themselves..
change their greed...
change their fears...
and if we "change that"
"then hey"..
we got something right...???...

waliz said...

that is so inspirational Billy..great song and great speech...me as an individual would love to see Barrack Obama win the election...

eventhough sometimes its very refreshing to see Hillary as the first woman president but looking at Clinton's record i will give my thumbs up to Obama....hope this world be a better place to live...!

thanks for sharing with me....peace!

ametya said...

Even after reading this, you became too puzzle to me...I think you have experienced different kind of loves so you are being able to analyse each moment with nice watching..Nice article but in next article i need what men(we) want...I want to know what do you (girls) think abt us ??? ok..waliz...

HeLL DweLLerS said...

I have a few thing to say...hehehe...but dont get mad it might be a joke. ha ha ha

1. Call her ---> I am using prepaid but credit finished already.

2. Dress smartly---> No problem. can do that. But wearing a faded-torn jeans is expensive. By the way men are stupid / dumb if u gals realise...they need to be told directly sometimes. Might not know "hints". ehehehehe

number 3 and 4 i think there ism't any problem with that.

nAt said...

yeah..can't live without him!! so far, Sham never disappointed me.

call me everyday. (walaupun keje 1 opis)

dress smartly. (org perak beb! biar papa asal bergaya)

remember some significant dates. (i add a reminder on his hp! ekekekek ;)

show love and affection. (mustilah ada...ekekke )

mintak2 dia maintain that way. TP kalau lupa tu... understood its 'age factor'!!

waliz said...

i have looots of experience..i tell you ametya..so no need to be puzzled...we women can be a complex species too...hehehe!

hmmm...what men want huh? i will think about it...its a good idea actually! but men may not like my view...lol!

waliz said...

hi helldwellers..it might be expensive but some women dont like to walk with faded-torn jeans guys especially when they painstakingly wear a good nice dress...not matching huh? but i dont mind though..wear whatever u want as long u can make happy...!

and pls make sure yr do not run out of credits all of the time..!hehehe...nice jokes!

waliz said...

natt..how many times i told u , u are very very lucky? what happened to yr pop's twin? hehehe....

death slayer said...

my pop's twin eh? he said he needs to think about it...

ekekekke..

waliz said...

i dont care..i want him..i want him...lolll! dont be so mean!

Navin said...

you are right, the girls who say they don't need are different.. umm.. in a sense,
you know what i mean. okie hopefully I assume you got it :)

These tips are very nice :) should work on it.. :)

waliz said...

no navin..i dont get it...what? what? care to elaborate? hahaha...

bluedreamer27 said...

thanks for sharing that
waliz its very useful
btw thanks for permitting me i will soon send the questions in mybloglog thanks

WoW said...

It's true. A translation from Chinese words 'big gut small heart'. 'Big gut' here means to say that men should be brave, dare to express their feelings to their loved ones while 'small heart' means men should take care of little things that can make women happy : )

neomesuff said...

Men likes to gov excuses larrrr... ;-) so they say difficult lah to read..and women loves mind reader kah kah kah

nisha said...

you're right about everything the soft side of women, the curious nature, the tendency to notice tiny cuts in your jeans, including the tight slap.. hehehe

I hope men never take women for granted and sometimes give in to them, even if they dont like.. pamper her and shes always yours!

U.Lee said...

Hi Waliz, men who don't understand women fall into 2 groups, bachelors and husbands, ha ha.
But patience has always been one of my virtues, but only where women are concerned as the rewards are worth waiting for.
You have a great day, Waliz, UL.

Sweetiepie said...

Yes that's so true!Sometimes i dpn't even could understand myself.YUP!if the guy said call me.Make sure they call.Or else I could be mad like a dragon.:)

myfisol said...

good tips waliz..thanks..

maybe I print them, and try to remember..hehe..

mr_viruz said...

oh im late
well men always complain because some women is hard to read having different moods or what but me i understand all woman i know that they are just expressing coservativity or what
i really cant explain it waliz coz as of now im still dont having any relationships yet
but for sure i respect them too much

U.Lee said...

Hi Waliz, come over for coffee and donuts my place, UL.

Rolando said...

I think I could handle all of them except the first one. I just need your cell number :) haha j/k

bluecrystaldude said...

Haha.. I will try to boil it and drink as a soup. ngee~

bluecrystaldude

noorariffshah said...

Hi Waliz,

May be next time your can create some post about "What Men Want".

I sure it will be a topic to be discuss.

Cheers.

aAkaR said...

Oh ! what a tips????..................so women wants manything............and man have to do everything that women want????

Malabei said...

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Lily.Lulu. said...

very artistic da pic .. happy valentine's day waliz !!

;)

mr_viruz said...

waliz are you busy again well i would like to greet you happy valentines and i also like to tell you that i nave something for you at my IN MY MIND check it out after whatever you're doing i hope this wont ruin your sched hehe

bluedreamer27 said...

hello my friend i have something for you in my blog hope you like it

rino said...

Tips just in time for Valentine's day, huh? I guess these are what you look for when you go out on a date right?

Zen Chef said...

Happy Valentine's day Waliz!! :-)
I will memorize your post so I can remember the important things next time I'm with a girl. No groping huh!? Haha
Even if I'm a caveman with no manners?
:-)

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emanrais said...

What a lovely picture indeed. Seem look yummie cocok buat dik Waliz.

phantom said...

No.4 tu, sukar sikit la kan...

mr_viruz said...

knock knock waliz are you here hehe i miss you waliz but dont bother me just do whatever you are doing now i really miss you

Sameer said...

What women want...:
Compliment her, Respect her, Honor her, Cuddle her, Caress her, Love her, Comfort her, Protect her, Hold her, Spend money on her, Wine and dine her, Buy things for her,
Listen to her, Care for her, Stand by her, Support her, Hold her, Go to the ends of the Earth for her………..

What a Man wants:
Just smile once and he’s yours. (*_*)

mr_viruz said...

i can see that your still busy ill wait for your next post waliz

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Mogul said...

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waliz said...

bluedreamer...i'm sorry i missed the interview sessions! pls forgive me and pls give another chance....hehehe!

waliz said...

wow..help me to find this big gut and small heart guy...do they really exist?

waliz said...

neomesuff...u said it..not me...hahaha!

waliz said...

hi nisha..i wonder if u ever give a nybody a tight slap before?

waliz said...

u.lee...thanks for the tips..."men who don't understand women fall into 2 groups, bachelors and husbands"... i remember tht forever!

waliz said...

sweetiepie...i cant imagine u can be mad like a dragon....hehehe...does fire come out from yr mouth too...hehehe? watch out guys...u dont like it when we get angry....

waliz said...

myfisol...print it in extra...it might be handy...:D

waliz said...

mrvirus...the time will come and tht time u will be regret not to listen to my advice...hehehe! i know u r such a gentleman...woman will easily fall for u...

waliz said...

Ro...i can email u my number as fast as i can...hehehe!

waliz said...

hows your soup bluecrystal? hehehe...i can boil some more if u want to...

waliz said...

noorariffshah...i will think about it...its a good idea..but i'm afraid i might get biased...hehehe

waliz said...

aakar...too bad...yes..!

waliz said...

lily....yup i like it too...!

waliz said...

rino...its all time classic...not for valentines day only!

waliz said...

hi caveman...errr zenn..u can do whatever u like..u r excused!

waliz said...

thanks aa...apa khabarin?

waliz said...

phantom...hendaknya 1000 daya....kan? kan?

waliz said...

mrviruz...i miss u too..i couldnt find words to describe...my new post is ready for u...check it out!

waliz said...

sameer...
'What a Man wants:
Just smile once and he’s yours."

its soooo easy to please u....!

Rolando said...

All great tips Waliz! I would also add 'to be spontaneous'. Little surprises go a long way :)

waliz said...

yes Rolando...
a little surprise can add spice in women's life...thank for the added tips Ro...!but i dont think u need all ths advice...u r pro already...hehehe!*wink*

JiJoY said...

Wow..this surely come in handy for me..the most problematic one is to remember dates..I'm no good in remembering dates especially b'day..can't even remember my mom's

waliz said...

then jijoy..u r seriously need a reminder...a pda might be very useful...hehehe