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Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Bad At Love..I think u are lucky!


Award From Bluedreamer...thanks!

As a love and attraction coach, I hear some interesting comments from people: I'm too fat to be in a relationship. I'm too busy to fall in love. I'm too picky to get a guy/gal. As if fat, busy or picky people all spend their lives alone!

In fact, I've had friends who were all of these all at the same time-and still found themselves in great relationships. To be accurate, they didn't find themselves in great relationships. They put themselves there.

And you can too.

Now let's consider being "bad at love." I've heard this countless times. What does it mean to be bad at love? I can tell you what many people think it means.

People who claim they're bad at love say they don't know the secrets and tricks of making someone love them. (Pay special attention to words like tricks and making.) They believe they're not enough: smart enough, sexy enough, thin enough, cagey enough, experienced enough, sophisticated enough, wealthy enough, etc.

Sound familiar? There are about fifty more attributes I could have added, but you get the point. People think they are not enough.

Except when they think they are too much.

Too fat, too smart, too dumb, too poor, too wealthy, too sophisticated, too picky, too distrustful, too much to handle, too busy at work, too close their family, or their friends, or their hometown, or....

And some people believe they're both too much and not enough. "I'm too brainy and not sexy enough" is the frequent cry of women, while men seem partial to the "too honest and not rich enough" lament.

What's yours?

p/s i did quite ok in the exams...there were lots of 'toyol' helping me...hehehe (paraphrase from abanglong)...nahhhhh! i wasnt cheating..but the lecturer quite sporting to let us did some smallllllll discussion when he was not looking! after that he told us..."thats a sign of matured thinking!" bisa kan?

30 comments:

Speedcat Hollydale said...

... so you passed ?? :-)

People (women) always say I am perfect. (then wake up and find that's NOT entirely true)

ha haa!!!!!!!

Zen Chef said...

I'm so damn awesome at love!!! ... Kidding! :-P
How are you waliz baby?
Congrats for your exams...

waliz said...

the results not out yet speedcat but i am sure i passed!

i think u should listen to the women more...they critique better..hehehe

waliz said...

zennnnn....hows your back? i miss u la...happy to see u popping by..!

BillyWarhol said...

Oh Gosh Summer must be over Waliz is Back!!********

Thx fer popping by Sweetie* yer $Billion Dollar Man is still as SEXY as EVER!! Mind U i have a very Humble opinion IMHO of meself so in Reality I could prolly be MORE SEXY than Humanly Possible!!

;)) xoxooooooo Peace*

p.s. U always make me Smile Girl*

myfisol said...

waliz selamat berpuasa,

the toyolll!..people do that all the time...

neomesuff said...

i am full of love heheheeeeeeeeee

Mohd Kamal said...

where is my love..2x!! here she is..2x!!! hehehe...

Save me by loving me... :P

bluecrystaldude said...

Sometimes, I feel myself is sexy. Hahaha.. I hope there is nothing wrong with that :P

Wah.. Congrats on your passing the exam. Discussing is a form of matured people think huh? If it is a way to avoid examination, I totally agree. hehe

Ismail N said...

I'm no Love Guru, so I'm not going to comment on the bad love part. Marishka Hargate. But good to hear that you doing ok in the exam. Great that they allow some discussion too. I thought at your level, exam should made open book. What say you?

waliz said...

Of course u r sexy Billy...no doubt about that...and look at your photo...always being surrounding by sexy women tooo...hehehe

waliz said...

u should know better myfisol...no need to elaborate on that...shhhh!

waliz said...

glad to hear that neomesuff!

waliz said...

where..where..? where is she kamal?

i dont see anybody here except me! hehehe....u will be saved..dont worry..:D

waliz said...

sexy mexy bluecrystaldude...of courne it is not wrong...we are what we think..dont u think so?

about the exams...dont do that ok? u r still young, your brain still frreshhh! not like me..dah berkarat hehehe...

waliz said...

yes ismail...we do have an open book test and even take home test...it depends on the lecturer...but tht was only the first test..the final one they will be very strict!

etomyam said...

Luuuuuv,....? so subjective. the topic will be discussed over and over again till....Israfil finally blow the 'Sangkakala'

friend....can share how to cheat intelligently, I'll be a new student this coming december...kind of nervouslah

Ismail N said...

"People who claim they're bad at love say they don't know the secrets and tricks of making someone love them."

Stop Hurting Your self...
Stop Hurting Your self...
Why are you still hurting yourself?

You Need Turn yourself from
Nowhere to Now Here.

Marishka Hargate
- Love Guru

Rolando said...

You'll have to see for yourself Waliz :)

U.Lee said...

Waliz, you just be yourself, a warm, caring person.
Sometimes its not the beauty of a face, or a drop dead figure...quite often its a smile, or a dimple that attracts the men.

To me, I always admire, and used to date ladies who knows how to behave in public, doesn't swear, good conversationalist, good listerner, and most of all being who she is, a warm, caring person.

You just be yourself....psssst, good cooking can always get him if other things don't.
Thats how I lost my bachelor's degree....her cooking of my favorite dishes. Habis cherita.
You stay easy and happy Ramadan, Lee.

waliz said...

dont be so nervous tomyam,anything u look for me..hehe...i teach u..:D

waliz said...

aha ismail..now i know why u wrote marishka hargate tht day..nice poem though...thanks!

waliz said...

thats true rolando...!*sighhh*

waliz said...

atleast i have one trait tht u mentioned above u.lee...a dimple! not a good cook, not so caring (i'm selfish ), i dont know wether i'm a good listener or not and etc...
but thanks for giving me encouragement...hehehe...wish can taste your wife's phD cooking...!

bluedreamer27 said...

haha ive done cheating before waliz hehe and ive been caught so many time too hehe

waliz said...

hahaha bluedreamer...u dont master the art of cheating yet!

PoOr PrInCe said...

congrats you deserve it waliz

waliz said...

thanks prince...:D

AzAzura said...

I was lucky in love and pretty good at romancing but then lately my inferior arise since I am not good anymore ...maybe because I had lost my lucky rose quartz crystal! can u help me please councillor Waliz?xoxo

waliz said...

errrr care to buy new one azazura? u will get back your luckiness in no time...hehehe!

i hope i manage to solve your problem wth tht answer...*wink*