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Thursday, November 1, 2007



i just finished sitting for my Perkembangan Moral paper...little bit tension...cos' i already knew i made some mistakes here and there..but what to was too late to doa nything..just pray that everything will turn out ok....

So i'm here..feelings upside down..but still stubborn to share this...

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself
and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your
'Cocacola/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers
in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your
A real friend comes early to help you cook and
stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after
they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when
you have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

So, which one you always do to your friend?
As for me...the opened closed refrigerator sound very familiar...hmmm


Anonymous said...

...and thats why i'm super selective when it comes to friends.... ;D

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Mohd Izam said...

I had a super friend once but he end up becoming a family now (brother-in-law), however the closeness and openness of a friend is gone once you become a family.

Anonymous said...

Waliz baby,
I'm coming over to eat everything in sight!

JAZEVOX said...

that is why there is an aquaintance, and there is a real friend

thanks for sharing this waliz

eTomyam said...

err I would rather say it is all about personal boundaries...can refer back to Interpersonal Communication theory. Culture, etiquettes, norms, religion, locality, belief etc plays significant roles in determining one's interpretation of true meaning of simple or real friend...tu belum kira individual's psychological state of mind lagi. Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the hu, nampak senang test Waliz ni tapi sebenarnya melibatkan banyak penelitian dan kajian....Thats why kita ada Sahabat, kawan, kenalan etc.

Jenz Iggo said...

Hi, stumbled across yer blog.

Yes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. But I think some of the things u mention, like "houlders wet with tears" are a bit metaphoric. Anyways I'm really start thinking which of my friends really real, and am I being a real friend in return?

Waliz said...

thanks to azra, izam, zenchef,etomyam,jazebox and jenz iggo...

all yr comments i keep close to my heart..thanks

ady said...

some times; cyber friends are more realistic! their opinions, comments and such comes str8 from their heart, alas daily friends sometimes their comments,nasihat or whatever terkadang bertapis just kerana nak jaga hati....

my 2 cent opinion.

Waliz said...

very true ady....and all my bloggers friends are so funny and make me smile just to read their comment...i love that...