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Monday, December 10, 2007

To Tell or Not To Tell...



i didnt know what i was doing is right or wrong...whether i deserved it or not...or should i feel proud? this incident happened last year and i will laugh out loud everytime i think of it...

tht time i was attending one of my counselling classes ...this lecturer..i named him as Dr.AB..is known as a religious guy...everytime he entered our class , he would talk about religion..at first i didnt mind but somehow its getting worst everyday because it had no relevant to the subject he supposed to teach.. and to think that my class was a multiraces class wont help at all..

as i was the only malay girl who was not wearing tudung (scarf) i was quite uncomfortable and reluctant to attend his classes because i was skeptical towards him ...my friends also pitied me because they said it would affected my marks. If u in the university..your fate actually is in your lecturer hands (but not all)..if u can carry their ball well..maybe the chances u getting an A is better..sad to say but it was true..but till the end i managed to attend every single classes without failed...because i was stubborn too..nobody has right to stop me from attending his class..whatever is said or done..

but i was not to be intimidated by him because i always believe i could do well without anybody help...! but after a few presentations..well...i must say that i got one of the lowest marks in the class eventhough somebody else who did badly than me scored higher marks...i didnt bother much because , even i didnt score in his paper..so what? i know i still can do well in other paper..infact my cgpa was among the best...so i couldnt be bothered..u talked a lot about religion right? then u answer this to god yrself why u couldnt be fair to your student..

as a true believer in the law of attractions..i keep visualized myself getting good results eventhough my carried forward marks was not enought for me to get an A in his paper...the best i could get was A- . one day he called me to his room.. my friends pitied me once again..they thought i was going to get a good lecture from him about my free hair, or my dress or anything lah...but i was not scared..i got answer for all his questions...!

when i entered his room...he asked me if i could help him translate some of his paper work to english. i was surprised because i thought there was somebody else who could do better than me...but i did say yes..i will try my best. and u know wht? he said if i helped him he will helped me too...i know wht he meant but i didnt ask him to elaborate...he did ask me not to tell other people about it...hmmm...later i found out that the paper i translated was meant for his pHD student...wow! hehehe...

and finally..when the result was out..i got an A for his paper! i was not surprised but my friends..oh my..they all couldnt believe it!!...some even said i used my charmed on him....could u believe tht? this came from the same person who said my appearance will affected my marks! but i just i told them...'if u believe in yourself u can do it!'so please... dont judge people or scrutinized them...u might need their help one day... need i say more....naaaahhhh!

32 comments:

eTomyam said...

interesting, very good negotiation strategy it was, resulting in win-win situation. After all thats the fact of life, people need each other, and it happens everywhere. congrat.

waliz said...

thanx tomyam...i dont know wht i did is right or bad..but since u congratulating me..hmmm..it means good la...hehehe

nAt said...

my naughty sis worry about this? only this? ekekekkee

haloooo... this is a normal thing sis.

while im reading ur post just now.. ingtkan u report his attitude to program coordinator ker?
like what i did last time.. ekekek.. (lecturer suka membebel moody tak tentu hala-gaduh ngan hubby dia kot ekekek)

terus tukar lecturer!!

win-win situation is always positive.

waliz said...

really nat? mean ur more naughtier thn me...hahaha

no la sis..just guilty about the marks..he's one of the respected lecturer there..nobody will listen to us if we complain...sigghhh..

WoW said...

by all means, you can be his english tutor and it's definately a honour to have a student carrying the title Phd. "what a shame on him"

waliz said...

yeah wow...if he can carry the title..why not me? i think i could be better...

shawal said...

Congrats Waliz.... Congrats....

waliz said...

thank you shawal..thank you :D

Alex G said...

Well, can't deny you are charming. (Don't judge me or scrutinise me, I'm married with two children) Keep up the good work Waliz.

mauniejames3 said...

good for you but oveer here we would call him a sleeze..you see being so smart you beat him at his own game...glad you don't have him this year...but you handled him just right...maun

waliz said...

hahaha alex..too bad u r married...no i wont judge or scrutinized..just admire from far..thanks..

waliz said...

hi maun... a sleeze? hahaha...ya i'm glad i wont see him anymore..cant stand to hear his lectures though..

amiey said...

he was wrong when he gave u 'A' cause u helped him.i think u got A cause u r smart girl.

arsaili said...

talking about judging people..who never judge people? I think all of us do...
1) judging someone based on their pysical appearance
2) judging people for what they do

but we have to avoid it..

waliz said...

amiey..i didnt ask anything from him... if he wanted to give ..why not take it??
hehehe...

waliz said...

arsaili...thts right..we have to avoid it..esp if u already in the situation..people judge you not for your capability but the way u dress...

Zen Chef said...

Congratulations Waliz baby!! :-)
You deserve it and you get an extra point for showing him who you are!
Free ice cream for you!
;-)

FeelingFlirty said...

You're my hero. It's all about believing in yourself and knowing that things will turn out the way you want them to.

Good for you!

This is mighty knowledge you have learned at a very young age.

waliz said...

zen darling...thanks for the free ice cream...my favourite! can i have so more? hahaha..

waliz said...

flirty...there's so much more to learn in order to survive in this world...

thanks for yr encouragement...dear sis

Rolando said...

I guess you used that Malay charm. Works every time :)

Just glad this story had a good ending. I was holding my breath till the end.

waliz said...

rolando! dont blame it in my origin...hahahaha...but it really help sometimes...oppps no! most of the time...*wink*

Rolando said...

Hey, if you got, use it :) Nothing wrong with that.

waliz said...

sure...but i do have some other qualities u know? hahahaha

The All Seeing Eye said...

Good for you, Waliz!

waliz said...

yeah..thanks..theallseeingeye

Dann said...

Wow waliz..I respect your self-esteem . You won't have any problem getting success in your life.

A Z R A said...

waliz, nice post, i wonder if this lecturer of yours got Phd as well, then i will wonder too, how he got the PHD in the first place!, nevertheless...you go girl!!!!!

waliz said...

u knw wht dann..when i sat for my personality test i got the highest marks for self esteem and aggressiveness...hahahaha..dont jugde me me from my look...hahaha

thanx...

waliz said...

yes. he is a pHD holder..we also wondering how on earth he can do tht...*wink*

but he did it locally dear...hahaha

kenareez said...

hahaha pelik tapi benar

waliz said...

kenareezzzzz.....please dont tell anybody ya? hahaha